Just had bbq with a few of the people i grew up with.. We talked.. we talked about what's going to happened in the future.. o'well, conclusion.. our parents and sibilings are going to ruin our future.. *sigh.. yes that is going to be.. as much as we want to walk away from this ..as much as you want to change someone.. you will never have control to this, you can never change people's habits.. I just hope it would be less diffcult next time.. but i don't think that's the case.. I have frens paying off his father debts.. o well i rather start earlier then later.. I think alot of things are out of our control.. The problems was from your parent's family would finally appear in your own.. I must say things will always change.. Everyone rather it change to the better.. alot of things we know but we cannot say.. alot of things you want to throw away.. but cannot.. alot times you wan to give but you cannot.. alot of times you wan walk away but you have no where to walk.. walking away from your parents debt does it make you unfilial? You want to stop the debt from growing bigger but you cannot ... so in the future you don't have to repay so much, so is it your fault that your parents or sibilings are uncontrollable? How can you stop this cycle? How can you just walk away and leave this family behind? It's all about the responsiblilty.. does the person think how hard you earn that money? Do they deserve it? What would happen in the futre.. i dare not think..
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